A little over a week ago my Dad had a heart attack that he did not survive. My Dad was one of my best friends. He loved following what Jason and I were doing with Brandiose. He checked the Clink Room almost everyday and always had a question or comment about what we were up to when I saw him. He instilled in me my love of sports and as a high school teacher and football coach for 39 years he was one of the first people to ask Jason and me to design uniforms and logos for his team. We ended up using that design work in our portfolio that got us our first job with Minor League Baseball. He was deeply loyal and ethical, which shaped my ethical compass that I use everyday to guide how I run my business. He was a fun loving bear of a man, who I spent countless hours surfing and fishing with.
My wife and I moved back to San Diego two years ago so that my newly born son, Moses, could spend time with my parents and they could help us out with babysitting. My Dad was newly retired and he became our primary babysitter spending 2 to 3 days a week with Moses. They became best friends. My Dad and Moses are similar people: energetic, fun loving, curious, and stubborn. I’m so grateful for the time they spent together, even if their relationship was cut short of what I hoped it would be. I look forward to carrying on the traditions and spirit of my Dad with Moses.
Brandiose is a family business. Jason and I have been best friends since kindergarten. Jason moved a block away from my house in the 3rd grade. We spent endless hours at each other’s houses annoying our parents. All 4 of our parents helped in making our business what it is today. My Dad helped us build out or new office we moved into last month, Jason spent 3 days at my side as I grieved, and Jason will be one of the three speakers at my Dad’s memorial. Brandiose is a family business and we’ve lost an important member of that family. Thank you to Jason for carrying on the Clink posts while I was with family and for being there for me, as always.
If they’re still around and you have the means to see them this weekend, give your parents an extra long hug for me. This time you have together is precious. Thank you Clinkers for letting me take a day to tell you about my Dad and what he means to me and the Brandiose family. Thank you for your patience on your orders that haven’t been shipped, they’ll be in the mail soon. You guys are the best.
Fightin’s BTS will resume tomorrow!
I am really sorry to hear this. I am sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts.
I’m sorry for your loss.
Thank you for sharing this with us.
Sorry to hear the news of your Father. My condolences to you and your family!
Never pass up an opportunity to share a good story about your dad!
My deepest condolences to you and your family. This is jarring to me as my father was born in 1949 as well. I am not a super religious man but, having lost a couple close family members in the last couple of years including my son I found it easier to find peace knowing that they are in a better place.I will say a prayer for you and yours in this difficult time. Embrace and enjoy your memories and always remember grieve at your own pace.
I’m sorry for your loss. I hope that he finds peace.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Very sorry to hear about your loss. It especially hits close to home being at a similar point in my life. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
My deepest condolences. January 5 was the 21st anniversary of my own father’s passing. The bond between a father and son is such an important one. I hope that your cherished memories will help you through this time of difficulty as fond memories of my dad have always helped me.
So sorry to hear about your loss. Will definitely keep you in my thoughts and prayers moving forward.
Casey,
May you have all the support, peace, and comfort you need to get you through these hard times.
Very sorry for your loss. My family will keep and yours in our thoughts and prayers.
Casey,
i’m sorry for your loss.
Casey,
My deepest condolences.
What sobering news. So very sorry for your loss, Casey. What a great legacy to leave, though. A love of sports is great, but to have loyalty and ethics modeled? Even better.
I’m truly sorry for your loss. My dad passed away when I was 18 and I still miss him all these years later. Keep your head up and may your son’s sons be a lasting legacy to your dad’s memory. You and your family are in my prayers. God bless.
sorry for your loss, casey.
I’m sorry to hear about your loss Casey! I really understand your feelings; my dad was the person who taught me about professionalism, responsibilities and taking pride in whatever I do.
My prayers are with you and yours.
So sorry for your loss.
Casey, my deepest condolences go out to you, your entire family, and your father’s many friends.
It is often said when someone we love passes away that they’ve left a “hole” in our lives and in our hearts. That’s true… and I believe the presence of the “hole” is purposeful. It is meant to be “filled”, both with loving memories of the departed and, just as importantly, with acts of of kindness, compassion, and charity towards those who are left behind – family, firends, acquaintances, and strangers alike. The “filling of the hole” is our contribution to the legacy of those we’ve lost.
Sending an abundance of love, hope, and prayer your way…
Brian
Casey,
Without having read your post first, that photo alone, spoke volumes of what kind of man he was.
May you find comfort at this difficult time.
Derek
So sorry for your loss Casey. I know how hard it is to lose a parent as well. As cliche as it is, time will heal and they will always be with you. It sounds like you are going to instill your Father’s lessons with Moses and that is the greatest way to honor him. Again so very sorry bro.
Dave
My condolences go out to you and your family.
I’m very sorry for your loss.
This is sad news Casey, my condolences for your and your family’s loss.
ps what cute kid you have by the way!
sorry for your loss Casey, your father sounds like an amazing man and i’m sure you and your son have picked up some of those traits to keep his memory/legacy alive.
Very sorry for your loss. I lost my uncle with whom I was very close with several years ago but losing your father must feel a hundred times worse. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
I’m sorry to hear that homie. Hope your fam is holding up alright and wishing you guys another successful year in 2013! I’m sure your pops will be proud at the end of it all
Deepest condolences to you Casey. May your warm memories comfort you and your family in these trying times.
I’m sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your memories of your Dad with us.
My condolences.
Sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing this, it was very touching. You and your family are in my thoughts. Keep making him proud.
My thoughts are with you.
So sorry to hear about your loss. What a great picture and what a cute little guy you got there.
Great picture, better guy I’m sure. Sorry for your loss.
Casey,
Man, I’m so sorry for your loss. I too am involved in a family business, so I know the ups and downs of it. Thankfully, all of our pieces of the puzzle are still there, but we almost lost one a few years ago. My condolences and prayers for you and yours.
Paco
Casey,
Words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time. May all of the great memories of your dad live on. Love, The Fishers
Casey, I am very sorry for your loss. We’ve never met, but your dad was an extremely important role model for me. I played for him at Christian High when he led us to the CIF Championship in 1975. In addition, he was instrumental in getting me a college football scholarship. I am sadden beyond words that I failed to stay in touch with him and let him know how significant a role he played in my life. I was very moved by your words about your dad and can easily imagine him doing all that you so beautifully described.
Jeff Wolff
Sorry to read about your loss, Casey.
My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family, hope you are all doing well.
I’m very sorry for the loss of your father. I did not read this entry before until now. I hope you are doing well.